Boredom is a stage of mind, feeling less active with surrounding and filled with depression, emptiness, and loneliness. To get rid of your boring nature, good habits, Rigid principles, and consistency required.
Attribute of some famous personalities:
Founder of Apple - A man of his own principles and good habits. The Pioneer of the personal computer revolution. - Steve jobs
Let's find some answers to why Boredom?
Reasons – Why do I get bored with everything?
Boredom arises due to some of the following reasons:
1. Doing things that are predictable and repetitive
People often said,
“Luck is predictable
Harder, you work, the luckier you get.”
According to some people, Predictability is a curse and no. 1 in the list of boredom. But have you ever noticed, during tough times this predictability helps you to fight your all the odd? This is the reason you stand in the corporate market and sell yourself on a higher value. Repetiveness will bring you on a level of awesomeness.
Remember, there is a saying in the Stock market.
“When a thing becomes boring,
You become Rich. “–Long term Investment
Predictability will definitely strike you to the door of opportunity. It is your choice to calm your mind and train for the best or return back to your home with empty-handed. If you are doing things and that is predictive, it is your first step to the sucess. Someday, It will lead you to your fortune.
2.Extrovert (constantly search for novelty, excitement, and variety)
People generally think, “Being an introvert is a curse, People are not able to express himself and feel depressed all the time.”
But sometimes excitement and extrovert nature could also throw you into some trouble. Moreover, searching “too much” about a thing will also definitely drown you in the ocean of boredom. Does that really necessary?
Imagine, A boy riding a bike with a speed of 100-150kmph. Suddenly he hit a speed breaker. What will happen?
The same thing will happen to you if you are in too much of excitement. Excitement is required to come out from depression, so save this for the long run. Life is not limited and you will get every single second to enjoy your thoughts. Being an extrovert to a single thing will cause you depression, but searching for different may help you to become a good person.
3.Lack of Attention
You are feeling bored because you haven’t got much attention. Does this necessary?
These days people are too sensitives to any opinion. Some use an extrovert attribute to overcome your troubling situation and others are uses to spread some nonsense.
Expecting too much in return will definitely cause you soreness. The feeling of surrounding with some fans and well-wishers always be a dream to some orthodoxy people.
Life is not about getting lots of attention. It is about spending meaningfully. There are lots of orphanages, Temples, Churches present out there, where you find kids playing with each other. Those are really needy ones. Getting the attention of those will definitely bring you lots of well-wishers.
Follower needs values and influence of “change” if you provide that. Attention won’t be your problem.
4.Lack of inner amusement skills
Life is not simple; it is a roller coaster rides, “sometimes Up and sometimes Downs”. Sometimes peoples show courage during their tough phase of life and if that phase lasts long. The breakdown and lose all hope.
Remember there is a saying, “You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.”
There are two types of people
One says, “I have seen enough, now it’s all done”
Another said, “Dear all, hold yourself tight, as you may feel some gear shift in the life”
Life approaches you with problems, it is your duty to stand stiff and come up with a solution. The tough phase will definitely require you to push your limits. So, try your level best.
Some of the other common reasons which also definitely hit you to boredom.
- lack of self-awareness (what to do or don’t have the goal)
- Feeling stuck or trapped
- socially less active.
- avoid making decisions
- lack of physical activities
- Negative attitude
- feeling some task is a waste of time and not worth continuing
Conclusion:
Developing some physically engaging and knowledge enhancing habits will surely help you to relive from boredom. It will also help you to become a better human.
Lastly, Tip to avoid boredom: -
- Doing work with effectiveness, with more dedication.
- Doing physical activities and be socially active.
- Be positive and stay motivated
If you still feel boring ??
- Engage yourself in any of good activities (Running, Boxing, Swimming, Pool, Gaming)
- Recall that when you were extremely happy last time.
- You must not maintain mental distancing. Self-motivation is essential.
Taking care of yourself means taking care of society that gives you immense pleasure and power to fight against these diseases and helping you to become a better and responsible human being.
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